Linz recently posted up a thread on DC what our perfect partner would be. Their usual answers were “loyal, sexy, intelligent, etc”. Well, I went a step further. These aren’t exact, as the chemistry output of a person may connect with my desires differently with different people. Aside from the obvious generics, as posted on DearCupid.org:
Asthetics: Fit – lots of stamina, slender to a little extra meat according to her height, flexible, strong enough to carry some camping gear around without feeling low in energy, a roundish face, big bright eyes – the type when you look into will bring me a smile, a clean complexion, preferrably has a nice slappable (sp?) ass that looks yummy when bent over, and of course, if she has baseball size breasts, that would be a bonus! 83
Manners: publically proper, genuinely nice to people, politically honest, modest, courteous, warm towards me in public but respects my space enough to not leech onto me nor invade all of my time, wild and sexual behind closed doors, can get a bit adventurous sexually and other things in semi-public as well – not necessarily have to do lewd acts in front of people! Playful, generally happy, can meow meow to me sometimes… 83
Mentality: thoughtful, compassionate but not a leftist, nothing radical, spiritual but not religious, aware of her surroundings, basic perception of the people she interacts with, the willingness to experiment and learn new things with me and on her own, brave and even courageous since I’m not very courageous
Action/Reaction: sometimes acts in a naturally cutish way (randomized all the better), feminine but not too girly, spontaneous, can accept impulsiveness, talkative but knows when to be quiet and just chill
Sentiments: has a good long term memory, makes an effort to try to break me to try to understand the complexities that lie within, try to get a feel for all the little and big things I do and say and relate them to herself, can understand I want her first experiences in travelling, in dining, in almost anything to be shared with me
Comprehension: creative visually and mentally, has her own stance on subjects, is strong enough to tell me if I make her feel uncomfortable and unloved, is willing to teach me how to be a better lover by telling me stories that reflect her life (I’m good at those sort of things)
Love (poetic and metaphoric): In my world, I see two suns during the day, and multiple moons at night. When it rains, it usually drizzles like a light constant shower, where I can almost hear each of what seems like an infinity of raindrops. The desert converts to a massive ocean, like mercury, reflecting off the skies above, then drying up again, its sands portray characteristics of my emotions. I wish to share this world with someone, and have pieces of her’s influence mine, and vice versa.