The majority of past intimate encounters, lovers and companions were short petite women. Most of them had proportionately baseball-sized boobs, fantastically shaped asses and fit legs due to the dancing they loved to do. So I did not have much of an idea of what I liked because all of the women up to that point were fit, petite Asian women.
When my relationship with Cindy ended in March 2006, I had an explosion of meetups with new people. My endless desire to start new circles, integrate new people into old circles and help myself to the world beyond the reach of my finger tips helped me broaden my intimate palate. I met all types of people with vastly differing personalities, body shapes and sizes, ethnicity, language knowledge, openness and awareness. It was a good year leading up to 2010. Those four years opened me up to many different things.
With that, I met a lot of women from all walks of life. This was the time I also realized just how delicious curvy voluptuous women can be. I don't mind chubby girls with curves and firmness in their shape. Huge round asses, fit legs, large boobs and a fantastic smile to go along with it all. After experiencing romance with a few curvy Caucasian women, I realized that my taste in body type and shape is not so specific as how I perceived it to be at one time. I realized that it is in fact a dynamic combination of factors that make a woman attractive to me. There is not a specific set of things. There are in fact an infinite set of things that need to flow together to make her sexy to me. You know the featured image I have attached to this post? She reminds me of my wife. Exquisitely delicious. She has a massive ass, large breasts, a round cute face with big eyes and pouty lips. POUTY LIPS! You know what pouty lips look like when applied with dark red lipstick? Do you know what it looks like with something between them?!?!?!?!
"Calm down Lee, calm down."
Okay, I'm calm now.
Here's the thing, if my wife decides to lose weight, exercise, get fitter, etc, I told her that I really hope she only does it to firm up and not actually lose her curves. She looks really really yummy, especially when she's all dolled up, but even if not, she makes me want to do naughty things to her just being in her presence.
The spectrum of what is attractive is not limited to one shade of colour. To me, it incorporates many shades and colours. I think it would be such a shame if people were to limit themselves to one or two shades and one or two colours. They really are missing out, if all they're thinking about are stick thin women. From my perspective, I cannot see the ugliness those narrow minded people see in curvy women. I cannot fathom that perspective, even though I recognize that perspective is biased only to the beholder, but at the very least, I could get an understanding, yet I cannot.
Originally, this was posted April 22nd, 2015 with its focus on the lack of sexual intimate topics I like to talk about with my friends that I wanted with my wife. However, since I am rebooting my blog (9.2), I decided I would like to re-post this with a better affiliation with the blog title.