Came back from work around 5:27pm. My dad loves to stay within the speed limit, which is a good thing. It takes him about 23 minutes to drive about 2 kilometres. On a good morning, it takes me about 7 minutes to get to work. On a good afternoon, it takes me about 15 minutes to get back home. SPEED KILLS!
I should think about other people more.
Anyway, I had to do some stuff, then took a 14 minute nap, then showered, dressed, etc, and out the door to Kirin on Westminster Hwy. It is my mom’s birthday today. It’s also Virginia’s birthday today. I wanted to give her a call after like 6 years… Well, 5 years since I called her. So I searched my room for my two old Nokia phones – a 5190 and a 6188. Oh yeah! They’re OLD! Finally found them in a box somewhere in my closet.
I phoned her house, but some russian guy came on, and then I phoned her cell phone, but no answer. Moments later, I get a call, and I was like, “Oh wow! Hope it’s her!” Unfortunately, it was some girl who acquired that number, and not Tea Girl.
Mind you I did a search for her online and found this:
She looks different than what I remembered. Mind you, this IS about 6 years ago. Well, I guess my concept of erm, you know, stuff back in the day is different to now… Who knows?
Anyway, I wanted to get in touch with her tonight and wish her a happy birthday. I think that’s not going to happen.
When I saw Marlon earlier this week, he reminded me that he thought he saw her at McD’s a couple of months ago. Hmmm… Ah whatever… Like my colleagues and my mom said to me, “Yuen fun”. Cindy and my “Yuen fun” was/is nil. Her “Yuen fun” with Nelson happened because she met me, and I persisted in our relationship. If I hadn’t, she would most likely never have met him. So that’s how it works…
Right at this moment in time, I think I miss Virginia more than I miss Cindy. Then again, that’s probably just old memories resurfacing. What happened back then was a LOT worst than this rendezvous with Cindy & Demons. (why do I smell like cologne when I didn’t put any on today?) On a scale of 0 to 1000, the negativity of Cindy towards me is about 750/1000. Back then with the whole company/friends/tea girl thingy, that rated at 950/1000. Mind you, it’s different. Cindy did things negatively for MONTHS towards me, where as that whole thing back then happened all within 6 weeks.
Then again, nothing happened between Virginia and I. Who knows? Maybe I was blind then too…