Kith & Kin

Be Awesome

Last December… or was it December 2019? Well, one of the December’s within the last two years, I decided to just let almost everything go and see where it took us. I won’t get into the details, but that challenge was broken about a month later.

So it’s December 1st 2021 today and I figured with the problems Amber have been dealing with lately, I’m going to take up the Be Awesome challenge. The difference between the previous one and this one, is that in that one, I was testing to see what would happen. This time, I am doing it because I want Amber to be less burdened by my needs and aspirations. Indeed, it may still pop up every now and then, ultimately, I will redirect all of that negativity productively. My issue is my critical temperament. That’s the one thing I have to figure out.

In short, this challenge by its mechanics is about doing what needs to be done, regardless of whether Amber exists or not, on the notion that this household requires regular upkeep. So being lazy is out of the question, but I won’t keep up with everything 100%. At the very least, about 75% is good enough. I won’t list the exact details on what I will do here, because I feel it’s too restrictive. I need to be able to do things based on the dynamics of the day, and not based on a box of rules.

First things first… Christmas Tree…

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Leemanism is about my views, my thoughts, and my feelings with as little filtering as possible. These concepts are not reflected in the people I value and are associated with. People who accept me, adhere to the parts where we are compatible and tolerate the parts where we are not. So however people perceive me to be, ultimately it obviously doesn't mean the friends I mention in this blog are the same as me. It means it's possible they are similar or the same, as well as different than me. It is highly unusual for people to be completely compatible with each other.

With that out of the way, and to make things clear, I never said I am a good person, nor am I trying to be one, though I would rather live with the empathetic than with the cruel. I would not deliberately do harm. I rather stand up against injustice than to pretend it doesn't exist. However, I understand consequences. The police is there to enforce the law, but not deter crimes from happening. Which means people must do what they must do to protect themselves, before the law of the land takes over and even then, the law of the land isn't there to protect you. It's there to protect the general consensus. Even if you may be right, society may deem you wrong - even most of your friends may side with society, than protect you. The law will almost always side with society.

We are few. Stay safe. (•̀ᵥᵥ•́)