Most of my past intimate encounters, lovers, and companions were with short, petite women. Most of them had proportionately small boobs, fantastically shaped asses, and fit legs, thanks to all the dancing they loved to do.
For a long time, I didn’t really have a defined preference because all the women I had been with fit a certain mold. Petite, fit Asian women.
That changed after my relationship with Cindy ended in March 2006.
Expanding My Palate
After that breakup, I had an explosion of meetups with new people. My endless drive to build new circles, introduce new people to old circles, and push beyond the limits of my world gave me a much broader palate for attraction.
I met people from all walks of life, with vastly different personalities, body types, ethnicities, and mindsets. It was a great four years leading up to 2010, and that period opened me up to many new things.
One of the biggest revelations?
I discovered just how delicious curvy, voluptuous women can be.
I never minded chubby girls with curves and firmness in their shape. Thick thighs, round asses, full breasts, and a fantastic smile started to pull me in more than I expected.
After experiencing romance with a few curvy Caucasian women, I realized my attraction wasn’t as specific as I had once thought.
At one point in my youth, I thought I had a “type,” but the reality is that attraction is a dynamic combination of factors. There’s no single formula. There’s no set list of traits that make a woman sexy to me. It’s a flow of things, an infinite mix that either aligns perfectly or it doesn’t.
Massive Ass, Pouty Lips, and Everything In Between
She has a massive ass, large breasts, a round, cute face with big eyes, and pouty lips.
Pouty lips.
You know what pouty lips look like when they’re painted dark red?
Do you know what they look like when there’s something between them?!?!?!?!
“Calm down, Lee. Calm down.”
Okay. I’m calm now.
Curves and Change
Here’s the thing. If my wife ever decides to lose weight, exercise, and get fitter, I’ve told her that I really hope she only does it to firm up, not to lose her curves.
She looks incredibly delicious just the way she is. When she’s dolled up, she makes me want to devour her. When she’s just existing, doing nothing at all, she still makes me want to do naughty things to her.
Beauty in More Than One Shade
The spectrum of attraction isn’t limited to one shade of colour.
To me, it’s a masterpiece of many shades, many colours, many forms.
I think it’s a shame when people limit themselves to just one or two types. If all they think about is the stick-thin ideal, they’re missing out.
I cannot see the ugliness that some narrow-minded people see in curvy women. I cannot fathom how someone could dismiss an entire world of beauty simply because it doesn’t fit into their narrow lens.
I recognize that perspective is subjective.
But at the very least, I should be able to understand their reasoning, right?
Yet, I can’t.