Thoughtful Nutmeg

Connecting us together

Recently, one of my friends posted up his insight on mobile technology coinciding some of the things he has read from various people on Social Media. He brings up a good point about mobile technology being an excellent tool to connect people together and that the blame of over usage should not blame technology, but in my opinion, on the attitude and behavior of those doing the blaming. Below is the post made by Sam Odell:

I’ve seen a lot of people on facebook posting their feelings about cell phones, and smart phones, and ipads, and stuff. Feelings of disdain, disgust, and shame. A misquoted meme from Albert Einstein, that they mark the downfall of culture and society.

Personally, I think the downfall of society occurred with feudalism, and it’s been downhill ever since…but i digress…

If you’re looking for something to accuse of pulling us appart from each other, look no further than the entire media entertainment industry… We’ve been making movies, TV programs, video games, for about a century now, and all of it is purposefully designed to distract us from each other, and focus us everywhere else.

But these new devices that fit in our pockets are the one innovative piece of powerful technology that is designed to connect us. When they were first invented, they brought us a voice from far away, and they’ve only gotten more powerful since. We can access almost any bit of information in moments, at any time. We can reconnect with friends we haven’t seen since childhood. We share the moments that are special to us with everyone we love. We now have more educational tools, and we are more informed about major social and political issues, than we have ever been before.

For some people, these devices are a convenience. They keep them connected to a social circle that is constantly moving, in a way that was impossible before. For other people, the device might be the only way they can cope, because social pressures are too much for them. We have no cure for social anxiety, and simply being introverted is nearly a crime these days anyway. Maybe devices are a crutch to you, (technically crutches are a device, but that actually strengthens my point), but to others it’s the only way to achieve normal.

If you don’t agree, and choose to reject the social media device, that’s fine. Maybe it wasn’t made for you. But when you start thinking that everyone else is wrong, and everyone else has to change… That’s when you need to check yourself. When you started calling our kids a “generation of idiots”, not only are you objectively wrong, but you’ve also crossed a line. That’s when you went from being opinionated, to being a bully. And maybe the next time you’re all in a huff cause the person you’re talking to would rather text on their phone, than hold a conversation with you… You could consider that phone might be a more pleasant conversationalist than you are.

He also linked a video which talks about this issue. I particular like how the host throws the script paper down at 1:43.


My thoughts pertaining to Sam’s post, as well as the video basically reaffirms my thoughts. When people start blaming tools for the downfall of society, those same people need to step back and be reminded that it is people that should be blamed for the downfall of society. Specifically people who firstly refuse to evolve with how society connects with each other. Then secondly, the attitude change of how those tools benefit our lives on a day to day basis.

One thing is for sure, if and when I have children, I will teach them balance. Enjoy the outdoors, enjoy hobbies that involve more than just the computer. Enjoy face time with your friends on and off the internet. At the same time, teach them responsibly how to use social media and how to think about things, instead of narrowing their paths to thinking about specific things.

I hope that if and when I have children, they know when to use their electronic devices, how to use them and when to put them down. If they don’t, then ultimately, it is I who is to blame.

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Leemanism is about my views, my thoughts, and my feelings with as little filtering as possible. These concepts are not reflected in the people I value and are associated with. People who accept me, adhere to the parts where we are compatible and tolerate the parts where we are not. So however people perceive me to be, ultimately it obviously doesn't mean the friends I mention in this blog are the same as me. It means it's possible they are similar or the same, as well as different than me. It is highly unusual for people to be completely compatible with each other.

With that out of the way, and to make things clear, I never said I am a good person, nor am I trying to be one, though I would rather live with the empathetic than with the cruel. I would not deliberately do harm. I rather stand up against injustice than to pretend it doesn't exist. However, I understand consequences. The police is there to enforce the law, but not deter crimes from happening. Which means people must do what they must do to protect themselves, before the law of the land takes over and even then, the law of the land isn't there to protect you. It's there to protect the general consensus. Even if you may be right, society may deem you wrong - even most of your friends may side with society, than protect you. The law will almost always side with society.

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