Thoughtful Nutmeg

Perfect Partner


Linz recently posted up a thread on DC what our perfect partner would be. Their usual answers were “loyal, sexy, intelligent, etc”. Well, I went a step further. These aren’t exact, as the chemistry output of a person may connect with my desires differently with different people. Aside from the obvious generics, as posted on

Asthetics: Fit – lots of stamina, slender to a little extra meat according to her height, flexible, strong enough to carry some camping gear around without feeling low in energy, a roundish face, big bright eyes – the type when you look into will bring me a smile, a clean complexion, preferrably has a nice slappable (sp?) ass that looks yummy when bent over, and of course, if she has baseball size breasts, that would be a bonus! 83

Manners: publically proper, genuinely nice to people, politically honest, modest, courteous, warm towards me in public but respects my space enough to not leech onto me nor invade all of my time, wild and sexual behind closed doors, can get a bit adventurous sexually and other things in semi-public as well – not necessarily have to do lewd acts in front of people! Playful, generally happy, can meow meow to me sometimes… 83

Mentality: thoughtful, compassionate but not a leftist, nothing radical, spiritual but not religious, aware of her surroundings, basic perception of the people she interacts with, the willingness to experiment and learn new things with me and on her own, brave and even courageous since I’m not very courageous

Action/Reaction: sometimes acts in a naturally cutish way (randomized all the better), feminine but not too girly, spontaneous, can accept impulsiveness, talkative but knows when to be quiet and just chill

Sentiments: has a good long term memory, makes an effort to try to break me to try to understand the complexities that lie within, try to get a feel for all the little and big things I do and say and relate them to herself, can understand I want her first experiences in travelling, in dining, in almost anything to be shared with me

Comprehension: creative visually and mentally, has her own stance on subjects, is strong enough to tell me if I make her feel uncomfortable and unloved, is willing to teach me how to be a better lover by telling me stories that reflect her life (I’m good at those sort of things)

Love (poetic and metaphoric): In my world, I see two suns during the day, and multiple moons at night. When it rains, it usually drizzles like a light constant shower, where I can almost hear each of what seems like an infinity of raindrops. The desert converts to a massive ocean, like mercury, reflecting off the skies above, then drying up again, its sands portray characteristics of my emotions. I wish to share this world with someone, and have pieces of her’s influence mine, and vice versa.


2 thoughts on “Perfect Partner

  1. Not really. I knew what I liked and just poured my mind. This was actually originally posted somewhere else. It just SEEMS like a lot, but if you think about it, everyone has their version – eg: honesty can make up many things, just that a lot of people don’t know the break-downs.

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Leemanism is about my views, my thoughts, and my feelings with as little filtering as possible. These concepts are not reflected in the people I value and are associated with. People who accept me, adhere to the parts where we are compatible and tolerate the parts where we are not. So however people perceive me to be, ultimately it obviously doesn't mean the friends I mention in this blog are the same as me. It means it's possible they are similar or the same, as well as different than me. It is highly unusual for people to be completely compatible with each other.

With that out of the way, and to make things clear, I never said I am a good person, nor am I trying to be one, though I would rather live with the empathetic than with the cruel. I would not deliberately do harm. I rather stand up against injustice than to pretend it doesn't exist. However, I understand consequences. The police is there to enforce the law, but not deter crimes from happening. Which means people must do what they must do to protect themselves, before the law of the land takes over and even then, the law of the land isn't there to protect you. It's there to protect the general consensus. Even if you may be right, society may deem you wrong - even most of your friends may side with society, than protect you. The law will almost always side with society.

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