Thoughtful Nutmeg

The Flow

Tune: “Goodbye My Master” by Yoko Kanno
Drink: Bombay Sapphire Dry Gin on ice
Mood: Reflective


Not too long ago, Patrick brought up that he feels that society makes people choose what they think is hot and sexy. I disagreed because directed at me, I do not choose what I like based on what others think is acceptable. The like-minded society he belongs to think that only fit skinny women are hot and sexy. My spectrum of attractive features is quite broad and is solely dependent on a combination of factors.

Flow is very important to me in physical attraction. That is where I determine what is hot and sexy and what is not. However, it is not so black and white. Imagine this…

A 2 meter by 2 meter square box on top of a perfectly thin broom stick with a triangle ‘wheel’ looks very odd to me. However, a 1 foot by 1 foot square box on top of a 1 meter by 1 meter square box with round wheels will look just about right to me, even if some of the corners of the boxes are dented. On the other hand, a 1 foot by 1 foot square box on top of a large egg shaped box roughly the size of the 1 meter squared box with skis can look just about right too.

So what does that say about my preference in box figures? It basically means that I am not restricted within the boundaries of one particular set of ideals, but a broad combination instead. It’s all dependent on how everything flows together.

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Leemanism is about my views, my thoughts, and my feelings with as little filtering as possible. These concepts are not reflected in the people I value and are associated with. People who accept me, adhere to the parts where we are compatible and tolerate the parts where we are not. So however people perceive me to be, ultimately it obviously doesn't mean the friends I mention in this blog are the same as me. It means it's possible they are similar or the same, as well as different than me. It is highly unusual for people to be completely compatible with each other.

With that out of the way, and to make things clear, I never said I am a good person, nor am I trying to be one, though I would rather live with the empathetic than with the cruel. I would not deliberately do harm. I rather stand up against injustice than to pretend it doesn't exist. However, I understand consequences. The police is there to enforce the law, but not deter crimes from happening. Which means people must do what they must do to protect themselves, before the law of the land takes over and even then, the law of the land isn't there to protect you. It's there to protect the general consensus. Even if you may be right, society may deem you wrong - even most of your friends may side with society, than protect you. The law will almost always side with society.

We are few. Stay safe. (•̀ᵥᵥ•́)