I’m Leeman – an introspective realist with a penchant for blunt honesty, deep contemplation, and the occasional well-placed sarcasm. Leemanism.com serves as the digital manifestation of my mind – a space where thoughts unravel, memories unfold, and societal norms hold no sway.
The Genesis of Leemanism
Born on April 1st, 2006, two weeks after a significant breakup, Leemanism has always been more than just a blog; it’s an evolving chronicle of my journey. From personal diaries to digital narratives, this platform has traversed various phases – delving into personal reflections, political corruption, social injustice, and activism. Over time, I’ve realized that this isn’t a battleground for debates nor a space for mass appeal. It’s a sanctuary for those who resonate with unfiltered truth and unapologetic perspectives.
As time went on, I began removing entries that no longer resonated with my growth. Not out of shame, but out of clarity. Over 600 blog posts have been retired – leaving behind only the ones that still sing my tune, that still echo the man I am today.
Who Am I?
- Age: 46 (as of 2025)
- Stature: 5’7″, 145 lbs, lean build with a slight beer belly – honesty is key.
- Health Quirks: A mostly dysfunctional right eye, courtesy of a high school mishap in ’94; infertile yet fully functional, with testosterone therapy since age 17.
- Heritage: Chinese roots with a patchy connection to the language – fluent in English, basic in Cantonese, and Hakka remains a spoon drowning in durian pudding.
- Astrological Signs: Capricorn Sun, Leo Moon; Earth Horse in the Chinese zodiac.
Love, Marriage, and Non-Monogamy
In 2010, I met Amber, my penpal who became my wife in 2013 after a journey that took me to Germany in 2012. Together, we’ve navigated the complexities of marriage, choosing to open our relationship in 2020. Amber explores connections with women, while I engage in intimate encounters with female friends – some evolving into deeper relationships, others remaining fleeting. We’re not swingers in the conventional sense; we’re realists embracing the multifaceted nature of desire and connection.
Through it all, I still seek a singular kind of muse – not a fairytale partner, but someone uniquely real. Someone unfiltered. Someone who brings mischief and insight in equal measure.
She would be bold, playful, unapologetically lewd – yet refined enough to spar with my mind, and bratty enough to crave discipline. A woman who delights in depth and experience – not because it flatters her ego, but because it ignites her curiosity. She thrives on being wanted and guided, yet relishes the power of offering herself fully, eagerly, without pretext. She wouldn’t be intimidated by my desires – she’d worship them. Not out of obligation, but because she wants to.
What I long for isn’t romance in its traditional script – it’s chemistry that burns with intent. A connection that feels like shared sovereignty, wrapped in pleasure, laughter, and the kind of raw honesty most people are too afraid to live out loud.
Beyond the Blog
- Former Top Writer on Quora (2018): Once recognized in the Relationships category until the platform’s decline into a spam-laden space prompted my departure.
- Unfiltered Advisor: Known for my lightning-strike bluntness; I don’t sugarcoat advice, which isn’t always well-received – but that’s not my concern.
- Accidental Traveler: My journeys are often unplanned, dictated by life’s whims rather than personal itinerary. Countries visited include Germany, USA, Canada, China, and various Caribbean locales.
What You’ll Find on Leemanism
- Deep Reflections & Life Musings: Explorations into personal growth, philosophy, and the evolution of self.
- Dreaming in Technicolour: A dream journal where my subconscious narratives are laid bare.
- Relationship Insights: Candid observations and thoughts on the complexities of human connections – no coaching, just raw truth.
- My Non-Monogamous Journey: An open discourse on embracing relationships beyond traditional monogamy.
Final Thoughts
I’m not here to be universally understood or adored. Most will skim, assume, and categorize; few will delve into the full spectrum of who I am. But if you’re here to read, challenge, and engage with authenticity – welcome.
We are few. Stay safe. (•̀ᵥᵥ•́)