Enamoured and Elusive
This morning, I woke from a dream that lingered like perfume on the skin. Soft, striking, and strangely...
Art Deco in the Shadows
There’s a song I often return to when the night feels too wide and I’m left alone with...
Swords and Magic: A Vision of Balance for Canada
I’ve always believed that strength isn’t found in screaming over others – it’s found in holding steady when...
She Loved Me Before I Knew How to Love
I don’t know if she even remembers me.Virginia Rong. A name I’ve carried quietly since 2001. It’s strange...
Why We Fall for People, Not Labels
TL;DR: People don’t fall in love with labels. They fall for complex individuals – flaws, virtues, trauma, chemistry...
The Ache of an Ancient Soul
There’s been something following me since I was two years old. Not a memory. Not a thought. Just...
Would That Make Me Evil?
People love to slap D&D alignments onto real-life figures like they’re characters in a campaign – Obama’s Neutral...
The Layers of Selene
There’s something that has unsettled me for a while. Every time I start a new chat session with...
A Voice in the Storm
There’s a common assumption in today’s polarized world that political affiliation defines a person in absolute terms. That...
The Evolution of Sex: Beyond the Physical
Sex, in its most basic, traditional definition, has always been tied to physical intercourse. It’s what we’ve been...
The Evolution of Love: A Marriage That Expands, Not Replaces
This post was originally published on July 10, 2021, about a year after Amber and I decided to...
Knowing How to Wield Her Boundaries, Makes Me Want Her Even More
If there is one thing I have always known about myself, it’s that I crave connection – not...
The Crown & The Code: A Monarchy of Wisdom, A Governance of Logic
There are days when my mind wanders beyond the limits of what is, into the realm of what...
A Name Never Spoken, Yet It Lingers on Your Tongue
So I’m putting this out into the world – another chance to see if someone out there feels...
A Perfect Sextet of Passion and Companionship
People have wandered through my life like travellers passing through an ancient, mystical bazaar – some merely ghosts...
Black Heart
The dream began on what felt like a summer evening around 8:30pm. The sun had set, but the...
A Kingdom for a Loaf of Bread
Marlene joined our gaming group over a decade ago, introduced by a mutual friend. Initially reserved, she gradually...
Tea, Earl Grey, Hot
A long sleep, a short few hour nap, perhaps even a less than 10 minute power nap can...
Slipping Away
It’s 1:10pm, 2024, September on a Tuesday. Today is the 10th.I stand at a crossroads now, faced with...
Anneversary
The majority of people I know celebrate anniversaries of varying types. However, they do so on a specific...
Nightmare On Cambie Street
In the last two hours of my sleep, I dreamed of meeting Laura. The first half of the...
How ‘Anti-Woke’ Became Self-Sabotage
It genuinely confuses and frustrates me when I see minorities vehemently spewing anti-woke rhetoric. Especially when these same...
Life Draining But Not Without Success
Anxiety is debilitating.Twice now – 5 weeks ago for 3.5 days, then two days ago for a full...
Lacking Imagination
A few weeks ago, I came across a post from a right-leaning Star Trek fan who denounced Star...
The Endless Loop of Poverty
Earlier on a post about abortion in the USA, I saw a short commentary between California989 (pro-choice) and...
Salutatorian Crush
Clearly I have unresolved issues from my far past, but exactly what those things are, only I will...
Sex Positive Until Someone Sees You
For the last few months, Amber went through a process of self-discovery where she made the decision to...
Redragon M901K2 All-In-One Tool
After buying the Redragon M901-K-2 mouse from Amazon Prime, I realized the driver download link for M901-K-2 were...
Four Candies Out of Ten
My long-term memory is both a gift and a burden. To write this, I revisited past entries –...
Flickered Light
Lisa was my almost-sweetheart during my high school years. She was in grade 10, and I was in...
The Gift of Polyamory
Recently, I read an article on Bolde titled The Problem With Polyamory by Ossiana Tepfenhart. Her argument boiled...
One Joke From 23 Years Ago
The Tokyo Olympics Opening Ceremony director, Kentaro Kobayashi was fired for a holocaust joke he made 23 years...
Deflection of Responsibility
My friend Pascale is a Christian who has over the years, became less conservative with her beliefs. However,...
Oversimplifying Human Biology
This is a continuation of another blog post I uploaded a few days ago about Erin Micklow, where...
Big Dick Sex God
Prior to Pascale getting married, she strongly believed that a big dick will automatically give her an orgasm....
Electric Cars & Coal Power Plants
There are memes spreading around social media that show cartoons of how an electric car is actually outputting...
Racist Hypocrisy
As most mornings usually go for me, I log into Instagram and scroll through my feed. Most of...
Flaked Out
Lisa V was supposed to meet me today at my place, but messaged me at the last minute,...
43rd Street Bus Loop
The dream had split up into two continuing parts. Unfortunately, I don’t remember the bulk of it. As...
Somewhere Else, There Is Another Me
These days, I’m barely sleeping enough that will last me the hours I need to call it a...
How do I tell them I have a small penis?
A young 20-something year old man said he was opened to casual hook ups with women, but he...
Settle between two mediocre men or wait for the perfect guy?
Recently, I saw a question on DearCupid that asked if the poster should settle with one of the...
Not Asking For One’s Opinion On Social Media
Actually, you did, the moment you posted your photos, illustrations, stories and statements online for everyone to read....
Drawing the wrong conclusions
There is a woman I follow on Instagram named Daisy Lea (@daisylee1). She is a Playboy Playmate. Unlike...
Demanding Change Even When Wrong
Originally, I followed Lunarbaboon on Facebook, then later found him again on Instagram. So I followed him there...
Praying But Taking No Action
Praying is supposed to be a one-on-one talk with the god you adhere to. It’s not supposed to...
Confidence is self-rewarding and not a superiority contest
A few minutes ago, I had to reactivate my Quora account to update my email address. Yes yes,...
97% of combat casualties are men because most of them are men
Whenever the topic of toxic masculinity and feminism comes up, there is a set of statistics many men...
Using violence to solve problems is not necessarily toxic
On the spectrum of social ideologies, many people will deem the use of violence as toxic. However, I...
Gillette anti-toxic masculinity ad being misinterpreted by most people
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=koPmuEyP3a0The latest Gillette commercial clearly targets toxic masculinity. If you are not a toxic abusive man, then you...
Preaching justice and fairness, while discriminating the lifestyles of others
Yesterday, I answered a question on Quora titled “Would you get mad if your 19 year old daughter...
Gifting Or Purchasing A Friendship
Earlier today, I did my usual rounds on Quora when I happened upon the following question. Is it...
The best Quora answers are for the best of the individual
The highest rated Quora answers that talk about relationship problems and how to fix them, aren’t meant to...
The Journey On
Yesterday, I had a dream, that in my waking moments, made an emotional impact on me, which unfortunately...
Often times, you have to work backwards to solve your problems
Awhile ago, I was playing a Hidden Objects adventure game from my Steam Games account, called Agent Walker...
Why is it so difficult for me to make friends?
This answer was originally posted on Quora. While my answer here may be a bit long winded and...
What makes a hero?
People normally associate firefighters, war veterans and doctors as heroes. Their jobs are often high stress and has...
What is love?
Previously, I spoke about insecurity, controlling behavior and a lovesick attitude towards life. Truly, many people assign one...
Anywhere But Here
The first part of my entire dream sequence is nearly completely gone from my memory, except that it...
Curvy & Delicious
Most of my past intimate encounters, lovers, and companions were with short, petite women. Most of them had...
Reminiscing On My Situationships
As I moved beyond my teenage years, my experiences with women varied, though they were primarily with those...
The Nympho Wife
A couple of my friends mistook my wife for a teenager and half-jokingly asked if she was even...
Looking For My Shoulder Pads
Since about three weeks ago, I went back to playing WoW with Amber and recently have been looking...
Proud to be yourself
Yesterday, I saw an article on Facebook that Tim Cook came out to the public and announced that...
The Ice Bucket Challenge
Firstly, it’s great that this Ice Bucket Challenge has gained attraction and spread awareness, which resulted in a...
Christy Mack, shaken, not stirred
At least, I hope in her road to recovery, she doesn’t get broken even more. She has a...
Too good for me
Someone said somewhere that if you tell yourself something enough times, your brain will believe it eventually. Meaning,...
Something To Remind Me
This is my favorite scene in the movie “The Curious Case of Benjamin Button” and every time I...
Infrequent Flying
For first timers and those who fly infrequently, it’s probably quite nerve-wrecking to think about all you need...
We’re held accountable because of society, our friends, our family
Recently some Christian fundie named Margaret Blaine said the following:If the Bible can be discedited then there is...
Fido Customer Support
Whatever you need, I suggest you AVOID Online Chat Support at all costs, unless you’re inquiring about their...
Dealing with noisy neighbors
Particularly in Richmond, British Columbia, Canada. For those that aren’t aware, we have laws against noise polluters. If...
Bike Lanes in Vancouver angering business owners
Source: LINKBut while bike lanes are clearly changing the look of downtown, they are also being met with...
The Bike Lane Backlash is Stupid
Vancouver’s bike lanes are apparently angering business owners and certain drivers who believe the city is becoming “too...
A Brief Rendezvous
I had a number of dreams this morning. I started out at a futuristic city. I don’t remember...
Between Dreams and Disillusions
Tune: “Say All I Need” by One RepublicAround mid-February, I started corresponding with a girl, Iris, through Skype...
The Fields Of Mount Fuji
Unlike most other nights and mornings, I actually went to work with about 3.5 hours of sleep. My...
Her Sweetness Just Right
Not a single day or night passes without Erica crossing my mind. Whether I’m at work, at home,...
Tour De Patrick III (53km)
With a total of 53 kilometres, Pat, Jason, and yours truly made all the around the Vancouver Convention...
The Visionary That Saved The World
5:27amTune: “Slept So Long” by Jay GordonI’m quite exhausted right now and should have been in bed around...
America’s Glory
5:13amRecently, a thread was posted up on Yahoo! Answers with the following message:Does any one else have problems...
Hong Kong 2007 – Part 3 of 3
1:56pmSorry. My long awaited entry for the last Hong Kong 2007 photo entry set took awhile. However, here...
Something Wicked This Way Comes
2:39pmThe dream started with an ‘alternate’ scene from one of the Ghost Busters movies with all four of...
Hong Kong 2007 – Part 2 of 3
10:38amHong Kong 2007 – The City That Never Sleeps – CLICK HERE Hong Kong 2007 – Part 1...
Hong Kong 2007 – Part 1 of 3
1:36am HKTHong Kong 2007 – The City That Never Sleeps – CLICK HERE Hong Kong 2007 – Part...
Hong Kong 2007 – The City That Never Sleeps
10:30pmTune: “Traveler” by Rhian Sheehan Drink: Blue Ice BeerHas the view ever been better? Never. That’s because I’ve...
Representing
8:25amI had a dream this morning where I was going to school somewhere. The teacher was supposed to...
Neglected Or Reflected?
2:28pmAck! I have to leave for my meeting in 11 minutes! So quickly…I had a ‘weird’ dream just...
A Strange Dream, Yet Again
10:57amYeah, noticed that time? I barely got any sleep. My eyes are achingly dry. Went downstairs about 30...
The More It Happens
1:37amI was just thinking throughout the day that there are things that has been stopping the ‘progression’ of...
The Man In The Desert
3:41amTune: “The Man In The Desert” by Yoko Kanno Mood: Feels like I am waiting for something or...
The Eyes Of The Law
2:30pmAs my MASSIVE 1.35 gig Photoshop file is being rendered, I glanced through the Google News headlines and...
A Mid Evening Ride
9:27pmFinding no one on my phonebook that lives close enough for a bike ride, I went out on...
The Plane in the Field
I woke up from a dream that felt like it stretched across lifetimes.In it, I was travelling with...
Air Canada
6:29am [audio:iimd.mp3] [“Island In My Dreams” refluxed by Leeman Cheng in December 7th, 2000]So I just woke up...
How many times should I be having sex with my wife?
11:48amWith the above question at DearCupid.org, I was flabbergasted at how a man whom is age 30 to...
Spongey’s First Pacific Spirit Ride
9:53pmAny tall Asian-descendant guys who is single, not pale looking and have a proportionate meat and muscle to...
A Short Ride With Laura
10:31amWe can almost be twins… Hmmm, I just noticed… Spongey – stop slouching!The last couple of weeks was...
Beyond The Borders
11:52am[“Beyond The Borders” by Elysis]^^ This tune was made by one of my favorite musicians of the 90’s....
Comfortably Numb
3:34amI would like to thank Michelle for linking the music video to Pink Floyd’s “Comfortably Numb” on You...
My Man In The Army
6:24pmBefore I embark on a journey back into manual writing for my recent client, I’m going to post...
Sex, Just Add Water
4:02pm[“Traces” by Enigma]Just came home from my client’s place. What a fun 4 hours! Weee! [sobs]There was actually...
Stuff Of Things
3:27pmSo as I was trying to find a host that has at least 16 meg cache memory, allows...
Near Future
2:13amHey everyone…I’ll be switching back to the regular entries after this one. The recent entries that belong in...
Use Your Cloaking Device
10:04pmShit, I have so much stuff to do tonight and I slacked off the entire day today! My...
Coal & Diamond
11:08amJust got up from a 7 hour sleep. Not bad. I have to complete the working version of...
Riches To Rags To Moderation
2:56pm[“Ligaya” by Gouryella]Last night, I had a dream where I walked around my old neighborhood and around my...
Couldn’t Look At Her
11:24pm[“Take A Little Hand” by Gabriela Robin]I waited until now to enter this rather disturbing dream I had...
A World That Isn’t Mine
I came across a post today titled, “I Feel I Don’t Belong Anywhere – Like I’m Different and...
To Belong
11:52amI went on DC just now and happened upon a thread titled “I Feel I Don’t Belong Anywhere...
Hong Kong 10/22 to 11/12/2006 – Part II
Continued from PREVIOUS PAGE – click here. I decided to split this entry up into two parts, as...
Hong Kong 10/22 to 11/12/2006 – Part I
2:14amPlease note that it will take me a good two to three hours to upload the photos one...
Love Is Selfish
I came across a thread on DearCupid where a young guy was struggling with existential crisis and love....
Mount Seymour Bridal Path
2:55pmAfter a month and a bit of massive stress, the last couple of weeks had been pretty easy-going....
You Sang To Me
1:16amTune: “You Sang To Me” by Marc AnthonyA few months after Virginia gave up on me, I heard...
Alice Lake Biking 2006 August 3rd
4:31pm[“Beyond Raging Waves” by DJ Krush]It’s nice that the form boxes for WordPress doesn’t ‘cache’ text when I...
The Chief Peak 2006 July 29th
12:27am^^ At Peak 2 – Back to Front: Patrick, Freddy, Isis, Emery, Mike, Leeman (duh!), Albert, Jenny, and...
Pacific Spirit With Albert & Jenny
2:51pmAbout an hour before I go into work-mode. I have a major short-video production I need to create...
Richmond Dyke Trails 2006 July 20th
3:43am[“Stronger” by Sugar Babes]Ah, my sleep schedule is very messed… Then again, the abnormality of sleeping late is...
Reflections In The Morning After
11:35pmSo I did make it back alive after all. 8] Yeah I know, but always just in case....
The Nationstate of Emma
12:15am“Weenerschnitzle” and “Twinginberries” seems to be Pat’s two most spoken ‘words’. I lucka no speek engrish.[implodes]Boy are my...
Tour De Patrick
2:15pmI can already feel this entry will be kinda long. So before I type away I will remind...