Prior to Pascale getting married, she strongly believed that a big dick will automatically give her an orgasm. I didn’t argue with her point, but did point out that big dicks just mean they’re big. Most women find big dicks comfortable. A big dick is more about visual appeal that triggers a woman’s sexual desires. Ultimately, to achieve pleasure and orgasms, it comes down to compatibility and how the partners go at it. After briefly telling Pascale this, she gave me a look of disbelief, followed by the insistence that what I said simply wasn’t true. What made it laughable was that she was saving herself for the man she would one day marry, believing that intercourse was a sacred bond between two people in love. Her insistence that big dicks would be the be-all and end-all of all of her sexual needs, was naive. It wasn’t until she finally had intercourse, that she realized her previous beliefs all came crashing down. It has been over ten years and she still hasn’t had any decent sex, let alone a single orgasm from a big-dick penetration alone. She resorted to faking orgasms to keep the husband relatively happy.
Cindy, a woman I dated from the ass end of 2004 to early 2006, told me one of her past fuck buddies had a foot long cock, that always hurt her and she was never able to get an orgasm with. She was able to get orgasms with me 95% of the time, and my dick is quite ‘average’. I know how to use my pecker, plus, I communicate with my lovers on what does it for them, rather than assume big dick equals amazing sex. ^_^
For example, a third of the time, Amber gets fucked hard and faster, while she uses the magic wand on her pussy when we’re doing it doggy style. It takes her about 5 to 10 minutes to cum. When we’re doing it missionary, she uses the bullet vibrator instead. We both like missionary, because her orgasms are hotter and for me, she always wears her stripper heels, which is a huge fetish of mine. Plus, she has very sexy legs and feet. So stripper heels + sexy legs + sexy feet = hot fucking damn sexy! For the majority of the time, Amber cannot cum from penetration alone. So using a vibrator will usually make her orgasm. Sometimes, she masturbates first, orgasms, then I fuck her after, because she still needs to ‘complete’ it by having penetration. So in those instances, right after she cums from using a vibrator, I bend her over and fuck her senseless. She moans and pants and well, it makes me super hard. Sometimes, I fuck her while she masturbates, and she cums way before I do. Sometimes, I fuck her for about 5 to 10 minutes, take my cock out, suck on her nipples, while my finger brush against the lower part of her wet pussy creating a licking sensation. She would masturbate with her bullet at the same time. It usually takes her about 5 to 10 minutes to cum. Then I would fuck her again until I orgasm.
Of course, we also do other positions like Amber lying on her side with her legs closed and I’m kneeling behind her ass. I also fuck her standing up. I’ve had her give me head while in a Skype meeting with my clients and work partners. She has sucked me off while I message some of my naughty female friends.
Regardless, big dicks aren’t for most people, but some people will definitely prefer big dicks. Big dicks give a different type of experience that smaller dicks will never give such as exerting overwhelming wholeness. For example, Agata has told me she has a major yearning for a huge cock to worship with her slutty mouth and tongue. While she did say she is fully aware a big dick may not pleasure her physically, at the very least, it will pleasure her emotionally and mentally. Which with the right guy, the big dick might very well give her a very orgasmic adventure, even if she requires external aid like that of a vibrator or her fingers.
Basically, stop pretending you’re a sex god, when prior to the woman you’re fucking now, you were fucking a sock. Most women prefer a decent sized dick that fits comfortably inside her, attached to a guy who knows how to use it, as well as look decent enough to enchant her horny senses. Openly communicate, without assumptions, without accusations, without sarcastic ego-driven pettiness with your partner. Experimentation, trial and error, are all things that help make your sex life fun and orgasmic.
