Alt Lifestyle
Tinder Failboat
So I managed to create my Tinder profile with the following bio. And I hate it. I don’t hate the…
fwb insecurity Tinder
Social Annoyances
One Joke From 23 Years Ago
The Tokyo Olympics Opening Ceremony director, Kentaro Kobayashi was fired for a holocaust joke he made 23 years ago. If…
antisemitism
Whipperschnipple
Amber’s Ice Breaker
So Amber actually started using Tinder, of all things! That’s crazy amazing! I always thought Tinder is an app for…
Tinder
Alt Lifestyle
Stupendously Irritating In Building New Relationships
In an earlier post, I mentioned about the Poly Narwhal which is our ultimate goal in our open marriage. However,…
friend with benefits
Alt Lifestyle
The Mythical Poly Narwhal
My wife and I decided last year to open up our marriage. After a few months of conversation and brainstorming,…
open marriage poly unicorn unicorn triad
Self Reflection
Cao Yi & Sun Li
I’ve been going through older entries and read through “The Laid Back Crew VS The Uptight Duo” again, after so…
Albert lost friendship
Misadventures
Play Stupid Games, Win Stupid Prizes
On March 16th, 2021, I reconnected with Lisa on Facebook Messenger. We hadn’t spoken to each other since 2016, which…
Lisa Vo
Whipperschnipple
Straight to the Stars
This was originally posted on April 22nd, 2021 @ 5:52am, but was never published. Earlier yesterday, I changed the wallpaper…
Amber marriage vows mental illness
Social Annoyances
The Student’s Clothes Made The Teacher Uncomfortable
Coinciding this news story: BC school district gets new dress code after teen sent home over turtleneck-dress outfit, when the…
Misadventures
Live A Day In Their Shoes
This afternoon, I woke up to a negatively-toned message by a friend who is super stressed from having to deal…
broken marriage homelife sex-mediocrity stress
Alt Lifestyle
Our Open Marriage
Amber and I have gone through many conversations, many revisions to our relationship rules, and finally since November 2020, we…
friends with benefits open marriage open relationship relationship rules
Misadventures
Relationships Aren’t Built On Silence
Corresponding to an earlier entry titled “Fuckless New Friend“, perhaps I could say I dodged a bullet with Lisa, in…
friendship Lisa
Social Annoyances
Deflection of Responsibility in Residential School Murders
It was recently discovered that nearly a thousand First Nations’ children were raped and murdered by Catholic-run school staff at…
Kith & Kin
Waterboarded by Kari
This is the first time I dreamt of having sex with Kari. Mind you, in my dream, she slobbered all…
Kari
Social Annoyances
Oversimplifying Human Biology
This is a continuation of another blog post I uploaded a few days ago about Erin Micklow, where she openly…
Unpopular Opinions
What is wrong, isn’t always the wrong thing to do
And what is right, doesn’t mean it’s always the right thing to do either. It always comes down to the…
Infidelity marriage vows Pascale
Unpopular Opinions
Where does “my body, my rules” start and end?
Erin Micklow who is an alt-model of sorts, is absolutely stunning. Recently, she was creating some photos of herself on…
Erin Micklow personal space sexual harassment
Social Annoyances
Electric Cars & Coal Power Plants
There are memes spreading around social media that show cartoons of how an electric car is actually outputting just as…
climate change renewable energy
Dreaming in Technicolour
Hot Little Dainty Thing
This entire time, I was still the perspiring awkward feeling teenager who exerted confidence, except I was a combination of…
Social Annoyances
Racist Hypocrisy
As most mornings usually go for me, I log into Instagram and scroll through my feed. Most of the time,…
Self Reflection
Enigmatic Encounter
It’s 12:14pm. I am listening to “Enigmatic Encounter” by ATB. I’m at 3:08 on the timescale. I am super inspired.…
Misadventures
Fuckless New Friend
Lisa finally came to see me a few days after she flaked out. She told me she was called to…
friends with benefits Lisa
Misadventures
Flaked Out
Three and a half hours after I published my previous post titled Full Circle, Lisa messaged me that she won’t…
Lisa
Misadventures
Full Circle
I reconnected with Lisa a bit over 3 weeks ago on Facebook Messenger. I saw her photo show up, even…
Lisa
Self Reflection
Passage of Time
The problem with starting new entries, or actually, any entries is that I am always distracted by the lack of…
Self Reflection
I Love Sex, Doesn’t Mean I’ll Do Evil Deeds
My friends know that I am the ‘go-to’ guy for sex related topics. Primarily sex education. Of course, I also…
wrong perception
Dreaming in Technicolour
43rd Street Bus Loop
The dream had split up into two continuing parts. Unfortunately, I don’t remember the bulk of it. As I woke…
Amber hope Pascale Virginia
Kith & Kin
Agata’s Sexy High Heels
Agata and I are Whatsapp Penpals. Since my taste in women are broad and not limited to any small particular…
Agata pleaser high heels stripper high heels fetish
Self Reflection
Tolerance And Sensitivity In How We Connect With Others
Social protocols condition people to come to a middle ground between the lowest level of tolerance for said subject matter,…
broken relationships lost friendships reconnecting self growth
Dreaming in Technicolour
Somewhere Else, There Is Another Me
These days, I’m barely sleeping enough that will last me the hours I need to call it a proper day.…
Misadventures
Deleting The Naughtiness With Pascale
After a few more back-and-forths with Pascale, I decided it’s time to call it quits with the sexual overtones. At…
Pascale
Unpopular Opinions
My boyfriend is 19 and I am 16
Awhile ago, I answered a question on Quora about a 16 year old dating a 19 year old. Their genders…
age differences
Yummilicious
How She Makes Me Feel
Whenever I introduce another woman to Pascale that one of our mutual friends like or someone I think is attractive,…
Pascale sex appeal sexual attraction
Relationship Advice
Nothing is ever good enough for my husband
The question was originally posted here, “I just want love but all I get is criticism. Nothing is ever good…
abuse control marriage problems toxic
Relationship Advice
How do I tell them I have a small penis?
A young 20-something year old man said he was opened to casual hook ups with women, but he has a…
insecurity premature ejaculation small penis
Relationship Advice
Settle between two mediocre men or wait for the perfect guy?
Recently, I saw a question on DearCupid that asked if the poster should settle with one of the two men…
dating perfect partner
Misadventures
A Lifetime of Pleasure
Laura recently asked if it was worth having a moment of pleasure for all of the pain Amber goes through…
Whipperschnipple
Born To Be Awesome
For the next 35 days, from December 3rd, 2020 to January 7th, 2021, I make the vows to be the…
Relationship Advice
How could your spouse claim to love you when they had sex with a prostitute?
I recently started another account on DearCupid.org. It has been over 12 years since I was active there. The first…
Infidelity Marriage
Self Reflection
Self Love and Loneliness
I have been struggling with myself since I was a toddler, before my brother was born. While my internal vocabulary…
Unpopular Opinions
An Ends to a Means
Awhile ago, my wife remarked on camera, “My husband used to go after married women.” I laughed my ass off.…
cheating cherish homewrecker love
Misadventures
Dessert Before Dinner
A favourite past time I had, was molesting breasts with my hands under their shirt. This drove me nuts, and…
casual intimacy Pascale
Self Reflection
When to Stop, When to Go
In westernized countries, red means stop, yellow means prepare to stop, and green means go when the intersection is cleared.…
Misadventures
Dear Nicole
A few days ago, Patrick and I met up in my home. We spoke with each for about two and…
insecurity Nicole Patrick
Misadventures
Appropriately Molesting Pascale
Prior to Pascale’s visit, I propositioned her for a casual sexual rendezvous, clearly explaining that my wife and I have…
Pascale
Misadventures
The Dishonest Kiss
There has been many versions of this blog post, published and taken down multiple times over the last four years…
Pascale
Social Annoyances
She didn’t ask for an opinion, but she actually did
The moment you posted your photos, illustrations, stories, statements online for everyone to read, and made commenting available, was the…
Whipperschnipple
Amber’s Song
It’s exactly 12:00pm right now. This will be a very long blog entry. This will also be a very emotional…
Social Annoyances
Drawing the wrong conclusions
There is a woman I used to follow on Instagram named Daisy Lea (@daisylee1). She is a Playboy Playmate. Unlike…
daisy lea feminism sexism
Self Reflection
Leeman’s Monologue
In the original movie, Blade Runner, the fictional character of Roy Batty delivers a monologue at his death: I’ve seen…
Misadventures
Potty Mouth Mable
Mid last year, I tried reconnecting with Mable. I ditched our friendship around 2011, because there were a few things…
cheating friendship reconciliation
Social Annoyances
Taking Things Way Out Of Context
Originally, I followed Lunarbaboon on Facebook, then later found him again on Instagram. So I followed him there too. All…
lacking context lunarbaboon misinterpretation web comics
Social Annoyances
Praying but taking no action
Praying is supposed to be a one-on-one talk with the god you adhere to. It’s not supposed to be something…
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Social Annoyances
The “Ism” in Activism
One time, I came across a post on Quora about feminism. Specifically, a woman ended her post rhetorically asking, “What’s…
activism equal opportunity feminism feminist men's right activism mra
Self Reflection
The Thoughtful Nutmeg
When I started this blog, I wasn’t expecting anything. I only wanted to vent. What motivated me wasn’t that my…
Social Annoyances
The Triggered-In-Chief, President Trump
First of all, all of you Trump supporters keep laughing at leftists, feminists and libtards as being easily triggered, but…
Social Annoyances
Marriage Blues
The original title of the movie is called Marriage Blue, but grammar-wise, it doesn’t make sense since it’s a story…
Whipperschnipple
Amber
This morning, like most mornings, I walked down to the parking garage with Amber to see her off to work.…
Misadventures
You Don’t Understand Anything
Is what my dad said to me twice, before I stormed out of his house. So around 9:00pm tonight, I…
Self Reflection
The Thought Provoking Nutmeg
A problem I have is when I think up a cool sounding name and I want to register a domain…
Whipperschnipple
Getting fit at 40
The only time I ever felt really good about myself, was when I was a kid. I could run for…
Self Reflection
Nobody Else But You
I find it amazing Leemanism has lasted as long as it has. The domain was registered on April 1st, 2006,…
Self Reflection
Dear Leeman
For awhile, I have been wrestling with dozens of thoughts. For awhile, I have been struggling to find the willpower…
Self Reflection
Morphing Thru Time
Human beings are imperfect beings. So how do we define perfection? Perfection is basically something that absolutely fits a specific…
Self Reflection
Spice and Wolf
For anime lovers, the title of this post will be familiar, if not obvious. For the dimwitted or the lack…
polyamory
Relationship Advice
Confidence is self-rewarding and not a superiority contest
A few minutes ago, I had to reactivate my Quora account to update my email address. Yes yes, don’t remind…
confidence
Social Annoyances
Feminism is about receiving the same opportunities
When people hear or see the word “feminist”, they automatically think of an obnoxious woman who is trying to twist…
feminism
Social Annoyances
97% of combat casualties are men because most of them are men
Whenever the topic of toxic masculinity and feminism comes up, there is a set of statistics many men and women…
misconception wrong perception
Social Annoyances
Using violence to solve problems is not necessarily toxic
On the spectrum of social ideologies, many people will deem the use of violence as toxic. However, I disagree. It…
misconception sexism toxic masculinity
Misadventures
Lenny’s Love Letters
Over a month ago, I happened upon a few clips of The Young Pope on Youtube. I was immediately enchanted…
ex girlfriends ex lovers regrets
Social Annoyances
Gillette anti-toxic masculinity ad being misinterpreted by most people
Watch this video on YouTube The latest Gillette commercial clearly targets toxic masculinity. If you are not a toxic abusive…
Gillette miscommunication social justice toxic masculinity
Social Annoyances
Women are not ‘asking’ for it from what they wear
Early this morning, I read through Quora because I couldn’t sleep yet again and happened upon an answer by Naomi…
bad parenting Quora sexual assault victim blaming
Social Annoyances
Preaching justice and fairness, while discriminating the lifestyles of others
Yesterday, I answered a question on Quora titled “Would you get mad if your 19 year old daughter had a…
Children Discrimination Parenting Tattoos
Relationship Advice
Gifting or purchasing a friendship, unconditional versus conditional
Earlier today, I did my usual rounds on Quora when I happened upon the following question. Is it right to…
conditional expectations Quora unconditional friendship
Earthly Thoughts
The best Quora answers are for the best of the individual
The highest rated Quora answers that talk about relationship problems and how to fix them, aren’t meant to help everyone…
Blanket Statements Quora
Self Reflection
The Voyage Home
When I started Leemanism, it was motivated by my failed relationship with Cindy in March 2006. Since then, a lot…
Dreaming in Technicolour
The Journey On
Yesterday, I had a dream, that in my waking moments, made an emotional impact on me, which unfortunately faded to…
Whipperschnipple
Our New Home
Okay so I’m just testing this. Well this is going to be so strange. I hope I don’t wake up…
Self Reflection
Working backwards to solve your problems
Awhile ago, I was playing a Hidden Objects adventure game from my Steam Games account, called Agent Walker Secret Journey…
Self Reflection
Protecting Our Friendships
More specifically, protecting the interests of the individuals that we’re bridged to. Today, I sent a short email to Spongey.…
Self Reflection
No motivation
Of course, everyone has their down days. Those who work on a routine 9-5 or even a sporadic part time…
Self Reflection
I realized that I won’t go very far
The last three days had been an eye opening experience for me. These experiences don’t happen often but they do…
Relationship Advice
Why is it so difficult for me to make friends?
This answer was originally posted on Quora. While my answer here may be a bit long winded and not straight…
friendship advice
Self Reflection
Dear Santa, will you be dropping by this year?
I was probably about six years old and I know from television that Santa likes cookies with milk. So I…
Self Reflection
To be inspired, yet unmotivated
Often times, I have a few things happening in my mind throughout the day, but once I get home, the…
Self Reflection
Eric Wilson signed this 26 years ago
On a much lighter note than my blog entry last night, I went to Steveston Village with Amber earlier today…
Self Reflection
I might go blind
It’s not the end, but it might be the starting of something entirely new to me. A few days ago,…
Whipperschnipple
Amber VS Lee: Who Am I?
Since last night, we’ve been playing a guessing game I saw in an episode of Sherlock. It’s where you write…
Self Reflection
Not done yet
When I was young, a child, the view I saw was the Cypress Mountain amidst a sky of blue. I…
Self Reflection
Riding My Old Route
After my trip to Germany in April 2012, I went to the doctor and he told me I have fatty…
Self Reflection
Where we’re going
While I never speak about it to anyone besides mentioning it with Amber a few times, I often search for…
Earthly Thoughts
What makes a hero?
People normally associate firefighters, war veterans and doctors as heroes. Their jobs are often high stress and has something to…
Relationship Advice
What is love?
Previously, I spoke about insecurity, controlling behavior and a lovesick attitude towards life. If you’re interested, you can read about…
Self Reflection
10 Years of Leemanism
Prior to this post, you may have read “The First Born”. If you’ve been a visitor of my blog earlier…
Self Reflection
The First Born
Being the first born of the first born of the first born comes with it, a lot of unwritten and…
Self Reflection
Every day
Every day I am worried sick that my most stable client will pull the plug on our business arrangement. I…
Self Reflection
Candle Lit Room
I have lived the majority of my life in a room lit by one candle. Note that this is metaphorical.…
Self Reflection
Disappointed In My Friends
Normally, when I send out emails to my friends, I get a response within the next two or three days,…
Self Reflection
Lost But Won
A few days ago, I watched a movie called “Rush” focused on two particular F1 racers: James Hunt and Nicki…