This is a continuation of another blog post I uploaded a few days ago about Erin Micklow, where she openly talked about being sexually harassed by a guy jerking himself off in the near distance, … Oversimplifying Human BiologyRead more
Where does “my body, my rules” start and end?
Erin Micklow who is an alt-model of sorts, is absolutely stunning. Recently, she was creating some photos of herself on a beach, and some dude jerked himself off while watching her from behind a boulder. … Where does “my body, my rules” start and end?Read more
Electric Cars & Coal Power Plants
There are memes spreading around social media that show cartoons of how an electric car is actually outputting just as much, and if not, more pollution than traditional fossil fuel-driven vehicles. Of course, like most … Electric Cars & Coal Power PlantsRead more
Racist Hypocrisy
As most mornings usually go for me, I log into Instagram and scroll through my feed. Most of the time, I just double tap the photos of tattooed girls I like and the uncommonly few … Racist HypocrisyRead more
Flaked Out
Elyssa was supposed to meet me today at my place, but messaged me at the last minute, she won’t be able to make it. She apologized and I told her it was okay, especially if … Flaked OutRead more
I Love Sex, Doesn’t Mean I’ll Do Evil Deeds
My friends know that I am the ‘go-to’ guy for sex related topics. Primarily sex education. Of course, I also talk about the more lecherous side of my sexual desires and experiences, but only to … I Love Sex, Doesn’t Mean I’ll Do Evil DeedsRead more
43rd Street Bus Loop
The dream had split up into two continuing parts. Unfortunately, I don’t remember the bulk of it. As I woke up, it was still fresh in my memory, as if I was remembering something I … 43rd Street Bus LoopRead more
Tolerance And Sensitivity
Social protocols condition people to come to a middle ground between the lowest level of tolerance for said subject matter, and the highest sensitivity of how one might be triggered by said subject matter. So … Tolerance And SensitivityRead more
Somewhere Else, There Is Another Me
These days, I’m barely sleeping enough that will last me the hours I need to call it a proper day. I sleep somewhere between 11:30pm and 12:30am, then get up between 2:30am and 5:30am. Tonight, … Somewhere Else, There Is Another MeRead more
How She Makes Me Feel
Whenever I introduce another woman to Pascale that one of our mutual friends like or someone I think is attractive, the first thing Pascale does is point out the most noticeable negative thing about that … How She Makes Me FeelRead more
Potty Mouth Madam M
I met Madam M from a Craigslist ad sometime in the summer of 2006. After a couple of emails, she texted me some days later and asked if I wanted to meet up with her. … Potty Mouth Madam MRead more
Settle between two mediocre men or wait for the perfect guy?
Recently, I saw a question on DearCupid that asked if the poster should settle with one of the two men that is somewhat interesting, but doesn’t fulfill most of her desires in a man, or … Settle between two mediocre men or wait for the perfect guy?Read more
Not Asking For One’s Opinion On Social Media
Actually, you did, the moment you posted your photos, illustrations, stories and statements online for everyone to read. Earlier, as I was rolling around in bed trying to get up, I happened upon a photo … Not Asking For One’s Opinion On Social MediaRead more
Drawing the wrong conclusions
There is a woman I follow on Instagram named Daisy Lea (@daisylee1). She is a Playboy Playmate. Unlike many men on IG, I don’t comment lewd crap on people’s photos and videos, even if some … Drawing the wrong conclusionsRead more
Leeman’s Monologue
In the original movie, Blade Runner, the fictional character of Roy Batty delivers a monologue at his death: I’ve seen things, you people wouldn’t believe. Attack ships on fire off the shoulder of Orion. I’ve … Leeman’s MonologueRead more
Demanding Change Even When Wrong
Originally, I followed Lunarbaboon on Facebook, then later found him again on Instagram. So I followed him there too. All of his comics are wholesome. The core subject matter of all of his comics are … Demanding Change Even When WrongRead more
The “Ism” in Activism
One time, I came across a post on Quora about feminism. Specifically, a woman ended her post rhetorically asking, “What’s your excuse for not being a feminist?” Simply put, I am not a feminist because … The “Ism” in ActivismRead more
The Thoughtful Nutmeg
When I started this blog, I wasn’t expecting anything. I only wanted to vent. What motivated me wasn’t that my relationship with Cindy fell apart for the final time back in 2006, March 15th. I’ve … The Thoughtful NutmegRead more
Amber’s Whispers
This morning, like most mornings, I walked down to the parking garage with Amber to see her off to work. We did our little kiss and said our good byes, then parted ways. I was … Amber’s WhispersRead more
Nobody Else But You
I find it amazing Leemanism has lasted as long as it has. The domain was registered on April 1st, 2006, seventeen days after Cindy and I broke up for the last time. What prompted me … Nobody Else But YouRead more
Dear Leeman
For awhile, I have been wrestling with dozens of thoughts. For awhile, I have been struggling to find the willpower to load up Leemanism.com to post up those thoughts, because there is a large part … Dear LeemanRead more
Confidence is self-rewarding and not a superiority contest
A few minutes ago, I had to reactivate my Quora account to update my email address. Yes yes, don’t remind me how I change my email addresses too often. I know my sins. Anyway, I … Confidence is self-rewarding and not a superiority contestRead more
97% of combat casualties are men because most of them are men
Whenever the topic of toxic masculinity and feminism comes up, there is a set of statistics many men and women who are against feminism love to use. I’ll post it here for you to read. … 97% of combat casualties are men because most of them are menRead more
Using violence to solve problems is not necessarily toxic
On the spectrum of social ideologies, many people will deem the use of violence as toxic. However, I disagree. It depends on context and intent. A few minutes ago, I was surfing Youtube for a … Using violence to solve problems is not necessarily toxicRead more
Lenny’s Love Letters
Over a month ago, I happened upon a few clips of The Young Pope on Youtube. I was immediately enchanted by the mini series. Jude Law played the pope perfectly, as Pope Pius XIII / … Lenny’s Love LettersRead more
Gillette anti-toxic masculinity ad being misinterpreted by most people
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=koPmuEyP3a0 The latest Gillette commercial clearly targets toxic masculinity. If you are not a toxic abusive man, then you should have absolutely no problem with the ad, because it doesn’t attack all men, nor does … Gillette anti-toxic masculinity ad being misinterpreted by most peopleRead more
Preaching justice and fairness, while discriminating the lifestyles of others
Yesterday, I answered a question on Quora titled “Would you get mad if your 19 year old daughter had a tattoo on her palm? My answer is here: http://qr.ae/TUNTGo. It was a pretty laid back … Preaching justice and fairness, while discriminating the lifestyles of othersRead more
Gifting Or Purchasing A Friendship
Earlier today, I did my usual rounds on Quora when I happened upon the following question. Is it right to be mad at a so called friend because, while they aren’t directly mean, they don’t … Gifting Or Purchasing A FriendshipRead more
The best Quora answers are for the best of the individual
The highest rated Quora answers that talk about relationship problems and how to fix them, aren’t meant to help everyone in their individual situations. Those answers are in fact telling you that ‘you are supposed … The best Quora answers are for the best of the individualRead more
The Voyage Home
When I started Leemanism, it was motivated by my failed relationship with Cindy in March 2006. Since then, a lot has happened. As some of you know, I used to blog daily, sometimes, multiple times … The Voyage HomeRead more